Friday, May 16, 2014

Sexuality


This one is facetiously-dedicated to all the white anglo saxon protestant (“WASPY”)- or just any ethnicity- who walk through life demonizing sex and assuming that EVERY MAN is the same and is presuming that if a guy is talking to a girl or woman, that he is a dirty sexual predator who wants only to get her clothes off and insensitively "fuck" her, and then dump her at the side of the road:

For generations, men had been socially “conditioned” to see courtship- love and sex- as something inaccurate.
Movies, television shows, stories, what other people told us, what our parents told us, all that “social programming,” seemed to suggest that men had to talk women into having sex. It almost made it seem as if sex for a woman was a CHORE she performed as a reward to give the man. Thereby, filling men’s minds with delusional limiting beliefs from the hypocrisy. 
Society teaches that sex is like some type of Disney show or Romeo and Juliet. 
As a person who is intrinsically a deep soul and a rare person, I was able to talk to a couple of young women trustingly about sexuality from the female perspective, and get honest answers from them. I have copied and pasted the excerpts of our conversation below.
And now we unveil the TRUTH beyond the Social “Conditioning” which the media/society, and the Disney and Hallmark Channel taught you all:
ME: So many guys are taught that dating and sex are like some kind of romance novel, and she should be courted like Juliet or something. I remember the time I once read in an article, that a ton of women were anonymously surveyed on the type of first-kiss they would fantasize about from a guy. The choices were a) short and very sweet, b) firmly shove me up against a wall and dominantly kiss me passionately and hard, or c) long, soft and romantic. ALL OF THE WOMEN SELECTED “B”. That gave me a HUGE surprise. It’s the opposite of what is taught in the world. Does that survey surprise you?
Emily, 27, laughs, “No. Women LIKE to be dominated. You’ll NEVER hear those words come out a woman’s mouth, unless she’s VERY confident with her sexuality.”
Alice, 25, nods in agreement.
ME: WOW! Such a powerful statement to come out a woman’s mouth! Okay, so that’s a concept. But can we get more specific with regards to physical expression? Like, I was under the impression that it’s all about making sweet love, like a sensual Don Juan approach. Isn’t that what women like?
EMILY: “It’s a mood thing. Sometimes we want sweet…sometimes we just wanna fuck”.
ALICE nods with a smirk, “It’s true…”
Bite THAT, Society.
ME: WOW. Alright then. That’s enlightening. But, those are in a sense just words. Can you specify and explain an example of that lingo in a literal sense? Because the semantics of women wanting “love-making” and to “just fuck”, can still be elusive on the practical level of mental grasp.
(This next statement from Emily is facetiously-dedicated to every person in society, who hastily glares at all the sensitive good guys in the world whenever they see you talking to a girl/woman, PRESUMING that he is a Dirty-Rotten-Boy-Trying-To-Get-In-Her-Pants while thinking “I know what ALL you Good-For-Nothing-Horny-Manipulative guys REALLY want”, when in fact their intention is to be FRIENDLY, or even if they ARE romantically interested, they have a WONDERFUL PURE HEART).
EMILY: “EVERY single girl is all for [sweet] sensual sex [love-making], but they also want you to be strong enough to toss them on the bed, flip them over, and fuck them so hard they forget their name”.

ME: But perhaps that's just the case for YOU in particular, and not necessarily for EVERY woman.

A: No. EVERY WOMAN ON THIS PLANET....not "wants", but CRAVES, two extremes and as often as possible: firstly, to be made sensual love to, and secondly, to get fucked really damn hard. True of EVERY WOMAN IN THE WORLD.
NATALIE, 21, who all men drool over whenever I’m out with her and looks like a model, comes from a wealthy and sheltering family, likes “rough” sex. She says, “I like it fast and hard”. 
Q: “I always thought that sex for women was all about the emotional connection…”
A: “That’s a bunch of crap. Women are JUST as much ‘animals’ as men”.
Me: And just as much divine. For every man with a sexual preference, there’s a woman with the same preference. So, we can state to the world that women do indeed like sex…
A: Like??? LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! They YEARN for amazing sex. Actually…they NEED sex, PERIOD- "amazing" is a just the huge bonus.
ME: Wow. They LOVE and YEARN and even NEED sex. Yet she won’t say this to the public of course because she doesn’t want to be judged right?
EMILY: Right. Exactly. Because then she gets called a ‘slut’.

ME: Okay, wow. It’s refreshing to hear an actual woman articulate all you just did like that! So you can confirm that women love sex. Anything you can add or elaborate on?

A: Oh my God, one more time: WOMEN. LOVE. SEX. I can’t pound that into your head enough times.

If most men knew the true sexual nature of women, they
would be terrified. That's right, terrified. They have fantasies about all kinds of crazy shit.  They
fantasize about sex with strangers. Women are just as horny as men.

They just can't express it for FEAR of being labeled a
slut.

Her only hope is to find a man, a
Masterful-Lover, who can bring that sexual animal out of
her, harness it, and give her a safe place to express
it.

Look at the book 50 Shades of Grey.
In the UK it was the best selling book of all time.  It
sold more copies than Harry Potter - more than 20
million copies.

And who's buying all these books?

Women of all ages. 
Teenage girls, stay at home moms, college co-eds.
 They're all getting aroused while turning the pages of
this book.
Walk through an airport and half the women you see will
have a copy.

It's crazy. 

AND THIS BOOK IS NOT A “ROMANCE NOVEL”. 

It's filled with graphic descriptions of dirty, kinky
bondage and domination sex. 
ME: So, humanity, next time a woman is beautifully honest about her sexuality- DON’T be fuck-tards and judge her.
There you have it, you dear HYPOCRITICAL fuck-tards demonizing what you ALL, in actuality, WANT. I’ve ‘let the cat out the bag’…. DEAL WITH IT.


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