One Night Stands

I’ve never had a One Night Stand, nor will I ever. I think the idea alone is really gross and extremely depressing. Look at this higher perspective: you meet someone, and within 12 hours(or maybe even less) of knowing them, you go to bed with them to have the MOST INTIMATE and VULNERABLE experience that human beings can EVER have together. And WITHIN that intimate and vulnerable experience, they are using each other as masterbation tools to get their “rocks off” on each other. You are humping/getting humped by a HUMAN BEING. A SOUL. Who has a LIFETIME of history, a background, potential passions, dreams, and goals, EMOTIONS, memories, a sense of humor; a personality. Life force, breath, a pulse, and energy pumping through them. And yet, despite all the preceding I just stated, you are utilizing each other like Blow-Up Sex Dolls. Like walking and talking devices. AND…when you have an intimate experience with someone like that, you are energetically downloading all their ’chi’ into your energy field, consisting of all the stuff THEY’VE downloaded from their ex-partners, and ex-partner’s ex-partners, and so on- essentially your welcoming a sess-pool of whatever the hell baggage you happen to download from WHOEVER you’re downloading from (you don’t know!) Is that not so goddamn DEPRESSING??? EWWW.  I mean, JEEZ. That’s so degrading for a person’s esteem. It requires little to ZERO standards. UGH, *gag reflex*. Opening up your “flood gates” to just “someone”? Ewwww. If they have depression, be prepared to download their depression into your energy field, and not only that, but it’s not like their even WORTH it- it’s not like we’re talking about your future spouse or anything. Blahhh. *insert gag reflex here*. Good luck raising your esteem again after that :/ That seems like martyrdom: “Hey, thanks for unloading your ‘dirty’ chi into me even though we don’t know each other well, now goodbye!”. At LEAST if you both are in a relationship there a long term investment of love with would HEAL the depression. Otherwise, YUCK! But that’s just a slightly more extreme scenario. Not to mention, many men would sadly hump any woman with a pulse. While women who partake in One Night Stands in the first place don’t even have balanced esteem or self-image in the first place. Godspeed :(Of course, if a person has been mindful of any of the above until now, then obviously that’s totally reasonable. That’s the journey of being human. Women should just masterbate until they meet “Mr. Right” and men should just practice Tantric Self-Pleasure until they meet “Ms. Right”….not to say there’s “Wrong”, I just meet someone who you’re truly interested in: mind, body and Soul.